Tuesday, May 19, 2020
How Not to Manage an Introvert Marla Gottschalk
How Not to Manage an Introvert Marla Gottschalk Nordwood Themes @Unsplash Do you supervise individuals who would describe themselves as an introvert? If the answer is yes, you may want to take a moment to examine how you manage them. In many cases, we hold misconceptions about introversion which can lead to ill-fated supervisory decisions. Id like to help. While many people confuse being introverted with shyness â" introversion is in fact, about how an individual handles stimulation and processes information. Those on the introverted end of the introversion/extroversion continuum, require a different set of workplace conditions to excel, and we need to become sensitive to their needs. Small changes in management and workplace elements, can transact into a more comfortable environment which is conducive to success. A few things to rethink: Putting them on the spot. It would be misguided to expect an opinion from an introvert at the âdrop of the hatâ. One hallmark of introversion is the need to sit with oneâs thoughts and process information â" often far from the âmadding crowdâ. If you offer an introvert a period of time to process, youâll likely take full advantage of their skills. Publicly recognizing them. Stop yourself. Really. Many introverts would rather jump off a cliff than have attention shifted in their direction without notice. If they are about to receive an award or accolade, let them know what you are planning ahead of time. Theyâll appreciate the gesture and have time to prepare. Teaming. Itâs not that introverts are against teaming â" they would just rather contribute on their own terms. This means time to ruminate over issues on the table and offering a bit of a lull before they will jump into the conversation. To an introvert, teaming can become a bit of a workplace nightmare, in direct opposition to how they would normally approach their work. So, be sure to offer opportunities for introverts to start the idea generation process before team meetings and allow points in the conversation where they can jump in. (Try pausing 8-seconds before moving to the next topic.) The power of a quiet space. You donât have to be an introvert to appreciate a calm environment in which to process information. Incorporating spaces within your office design that allow for both peace and privacy, is always wise. (Read more about that here.) Someone leaning toward the introverted side of the continuum, will be forever grateful. They have nothing to communicate. By nature, introverts can be less likely to share their thoughts â" which makes it even more important to check in with them regularly. Send them an e-mail, asking how their projects are progressing. They can reflect and respond on their own terms. Introverts cannot lead. Truth be told â" you are dead wrong here. Recent research has shown that those on the introverted side of the continuum are more open to a differences in opinion than their extroverted colleagues. As a result, they are more likely to make more informed decisions. In fact, it has been shown their hesitancy to monopolize the conversation, can actually make them powerful team members. Sounds like leadership material to me. Are you an introvert? What workplace conditions help you excel? Dr. Marla Gottschalk is a Workplace Psychologist. She also writes for Linkedin and formerly at US News World Report.
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